Being more matured

New year has come and gone, have i really improved the past month?...A really good questions to ask myself. As i'm thinking of my new year resolution and going throught all my goals and things to achieve this year, i have come to realize one thing. That i have grown up to be more matured. It's evident in the goals and things i want to achieve. 

Before this all i think about is to own some fancy gadgets or going to japan to enjoy life etc etc....But now i wouldn't say it's gone but my priorities has changes. Those are my least important goals as buiding up a better future, owning a house, surviving the economy crisis and getting the dream lifestyle i after has taken priority. 

This had me reflect on my past actions and decisions that had shown how immature i was a few years back. Now i realize where my mum was coming from all those nagging and concern she showed. I wish i was wise back then, listening to all her advise so that i wouldn't make mistakes...But i'm not ranting now, the past is the past i'm just looking forward.

For the past few months i have been learning alot from a close friend of mine bout human relationship. I'm just glad he came to me for advise on the problems he face. It really make me realize that relationship as a whole is a very complicated thing. No matter it's with a gal that u like or just your best friend. We really need to learn how to communicate and also live with each other. If we can't do that it's really gonna hurt the relationship or friendship that we had. If people mostly think about themselves, disaster is waiting. Likewise, if one is in rage when making a decision...might end up in the losing end. Decisions made in this curcumstances the result will most likely be win lose. Which means your gonna win someones gonna lose. If this happens you have made a bad decision.

Why is this bad your gonna ask since your are the one winning. Lets say for examle, Dr M has urge people to boycott american goods to pressure the americans to stop the fight between Israel and Palestinians. Well if this works then it's gonna save alot of lives but then what's the effect it's gonna have to Malaysians?...How America will react to our actions?.... Most probably it's gonna effect our economy. Is this a win win decision?...Yes, we might achieve our aims but then our decisions has come back to haunt us...Who is in the losing end then?

I hope no matter what decisions you make, it's always along the line of win win....You will realize how it can benefit you one day. This is some thing that i have come to learn from my past experience. I'm complaining less when things are not according to my way or i see somethings that don't meet my expectations. I hope i can continue to grow and always make the right decisons. Hope that everyone can make a better decision in order to make the world a better place....