Being more matured

New year has come and gone, have i really improved the past month?...A really good questions to ask myself. As i'm thinking of my new year resolution and going throught all my goals and things to achieve this year, i have come to realize one thing. That i have grown up to be more matured. It's evident in the goals and things i want to achieve. 

Before this all i think about is to own some fancy gadgets or going to japan to enjoy life etc etc....But now i wouldn't say it's gone but my priorities has changes. Those are my least important goals as buiding up a better future, owning a house, surviving the economy crisis and getting the dream lifestyle i after has taken priority. 

This had me reflect on my past actions and decisions that had shown how immature i was a few years back. Now i realize where my mum was coming from all those nagging and concern she showed. I wish i was wise back then, listening to all her advise so that i wouldn't make mistakes...But i'm not ranting now, the past is the past i'm just looking forward.

For the past few months i have been learning alot from a close friend of mine bout human relationship. I'm just glad he came to me for advise on the problems he face. It really make me realize that relationship as a whole is a very complicated thing. No matter it's with a gal that u like or just your best friend. We really need to learn how to communicate and also live with each other. If we can't do that it's really gonna hurt the relationship or friendship that we had. If people mostly think about themselves, disaster is waiting. Likewise, if one is in rage when making a decision...might end up in the losing end. Decisions made in this curcumstances the result will most likely be win lose. Which means your gonna win someones gonna lose. If this happens you have made a bad decision.

Why is this bad your gonna ask since your are the one winning. Lets say for examle, Dr M has urge people to boycott american goods to pressure the americans to stop the fight between Israel and Palestinians. Well if this works then it's gonna save alot of lives but then what's the effect it's gonna have to Malaysians?...How America will react to our actions?.... Most probably it's gonna effect our economy. Is this a win win decision?...Yes, we might achieve our aims but then our decisions has come back to haunt us...Who is in the losing end then?

I hope no matter what decisions you make, it's always along the line of win win....You will realize how it can benefit you one day. This is some thing that i have come to learn from my past experience. I'm complaining less when things are not according to my way or i see somethings that don't meet my expectations. I hope i can continue to grow and always make the right decisons. Hope that everyone can make a better decision in order to make the world a better place....

 

Spending Lavishly

After a hard days work, my dear decided to spend me a hearthy meal. Actually it's her way of releasing stress. Been a very busy week for her not for me though. Well she decided that we go for TGIF for dinner at The Curve. We had frequented this place for the past few months and i love it there every time we visit it. 

We decided we will order as usual she will have the set meals and i have my favourite steak. So we went throught the menu and decided on our meals. We have fried calamaries for starters(from her set meal) then she have Chicken Fingers as Entree and oso Moist Choc Cake for dessert. As for me i'm having Ribeye steak.

My Ribeye steak and her Chicken Fingers

I love my Ribeye thought i ordered it medium well this time around but with the wild mushroom sauce it tasted very good. My dear's meal was very nice too, the chicken fingers was tender and nice dip in the special sauce which i believe contains mayo and cheese. What can i say, very good and also to her liking. We down our meals with a glass of Ice Lemon Tea and we share it to save on cost. Not very hygienic though.

Haivng fun....

After stuffing ourself with so much meat and three cups of ice lemon tea(free flow) we can't barely move. Surely can't stuff any more food into our already stuff stomach. But we still have this.....

Choc Moist Cake

Our dessert choc moist cake. This i believe is the biggest we had in TGIF. It didnt taste as good as the ones we had on our last visit, but we still end up finishing most of it. I can't barely move after that and in fact im still very full while writing this post. Well the bill was ahem.....not cheap though but i love the company of my dear and we had a great time....

Gotto go now, gotto think of ways to earn more money so i won't be broke after a meal like this.

Start of a new chapter

After pondering for a few months i have finally enter the blogging world. I really didn't get the idea of blogging but after reading friends blog and as i face more problems i needed a place for me to rant about whatever. So, im gonna blog about my personal interest, happenings and about my life. I hope muster enough intereting topics to share with the world out there as i read more blogs and visit more places. 

Gonna wan to start acheiving my personal goals this year. Been slagging for a very long time and not achieving the things i really should have achived.  Lets us all gambate and work hard for the coming year.  Wish everyone a great year ahead and a very Happy New Year 2009!!! Happy blogging too.